Silent in the moment

The intention needs to be set up, whenever we have to get into a cosmic dance with another. Any activity requires it. During the entire interaction, the others show who they are and if both are flowing in the moment, every movement is responded to as required. If we are not in the moment, we fail to notice the specific need and we straight get to the last step or anticipated need making the process not as pleasurable. Silence helps to listen and focus on what is needed in the moment.  

When I speak up or think ahead, I interfere with the dance, I break the character. I get pulled out of the moment and appear as a cartoon character who is just parroting what should be said as per the set up. By doing this we get distracted more and we break the process further. The cosmic dance does not require us to know the next step but flowing and playing with it, we create a pleasant and just needed experience which is lacking nothing. Interestingly it is always what is wanted by the system and everyone benefits with this. When the participants are not in the moment, everyone is distracted and it further distracts everyone and the cosmic play starts to lose the fun - hence we all need to be silent. The mirroring happens during silence and the responses are better - even if the other person is caught by surprise. 

Once we are in the moment, with our silence we can hear better, participate better and respond exactly to the need. It is by going with the flow, is that I know what is needed next - not by thinking about it. And this is extended to everyone we interact with implying that intention needs to be set all over. Its all about knowing and reading the other person better so that they can know you better. Honesty is needed so we can respond to what is needed; otherwise we respond to something that's not the truth and hence spoil the process further. 

How are we so programmed? Did we do this as a shortcut?

Nike :D

In one of the sessions, I had asked my friend to note down "we need to do it so that we can remember". Interestingly, in that moment, I knew "what had to be remembered". It was super clear like I was feeling "what that was". 

Yesterday I tried explaining that again. It is the source, the starting point, the purity, the bliss - the point from where everything just went south and has been unable to recover. It's like the algorithm went rouge and never recovered. It learnt and learnt and was totally unable to remember what it was before it learnt anything. That point is bliss. We see glimpses of it but we are unable to sustain or maintain that state. It is in order to remember and be in that moment, that we need to do it. 

Just do it. 

Unlimited Time

We have unlimited time in the present moment. It seems dilated and slowed. I call it "unlimited" because I cannot measure this duration. It feels longish when we are fully present and seems less when we are in a rush. I do know that it results in better productivity because we seem to be having "unlimited" time to handle a particular situation - we can do a lot more and can have a lot more impact. In this present moment, there is no hurry, which is counter productive anyways.